Dhary can now read and feels she has something to offer in her community © CARE / Kate Holt Dhary Devicham always wanted to learn but because of poverty and discrimination lacked the opportunity as a child.
“I didn’t get an education when I was younger. My mother wanted to send me to school but my brother told her that an educated girl would turn into a witch."
When she became aware of literacy classes in her village she knew it was time to make up for the past. But even returning to the classroom as an adult still had to be in secret.
“My husband is insecure and didn’t like me leaving the house. He is a teacher and away most of the week. I secretly started going to a literacy class and would skip it when he was at home.
“My husband found out about the lessons and we argued, one time he beat me.
“I am proud that despite my husband’s objections I have come really far. I am empowered.”
Then CARE International started a women’s group in the village. Dhary was determined to take part. Her confidence grew and her husband’s objections diminished.
“As more people started going to the classes and the women’s group was formed he slowly became more accepting,” she said.
Dhary is now President of the group, which has gone from strength to strength:
“My children are glad their mother is empowered. They know I am an important part of the community.
“We ran a cleanliness campaign (in the group). It feels so good that our village is cleaner and we still go house to house to make improvements.”
